- Choose from the list of Roster Mediators below. It is important for both of you to speak with several mediators before making a decision.
- You can also find information on each mediator here (including location, fees, experience, etc.) by clicking on their image.
- When calling different mediators:
- Tell them what is important to you about your decision-making and mediation.
- Ask how they see their role as mediator.
- If you think that meeting and talking with your (soon-to-be) ex will be hard or if you are uncomfortable or afraid of being with him/her, let the mediator know. Ask the mediator how they would handle that.
- Ask whether the mediator already knows either of you or has a personal bias that would affect his or her ability to be neutral when working with you.
- Which mediators sound like someone you could work with and trust? Select a Mediator acceptable to both of you.
- If you can’t agree on a mediator, the Court has assigned a default mediator (on page 3 of your order).
