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Mediation and Domestic Violence 1: December 6, 2007

Mediation and Domestic Violence 3 using NEW training DVD: December 7, 2007

Domestic violence is common: At least one in four women has experienced domestic violence. That’s 25% of the women or couples in your practice. Risk of violence is highest when parties are separating.

Batterers are more likely to stalk, harass, batter, injure or kill their intimate partners when the victim takes steps to end the relationship. The rate of intimate partner victimization (per 1000 persons) is 31.9% for divorced and separated women and 6.2% for divorced and separated men.

Do you know enough about detecting domestic violence to be responsible in your role? Their safety and yours is at stake.

These sessions provide a forum for mediators, attorneys, therapists, victim advocates, and other professionals who work with individuals or couples to examine the issues involved in cases where one of the parties is a batterer. To register or for more information, go to:

Mediation and Domestic Violence, Session 1:

What Mediators, Attorneys and Other Professionals Need to Know

Domestic Violence: Myths and Facts, Screening for DV,

How to Recognize Whether Your Client is a Victim or a Batterer, and

Assessing Appropriateness of Mediation

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Grant Wood AEA, 1120 33 RD Ave. SW, Cedar Rapids, Room 214

7 hours CLE applied for

AND/OR

PREMIERE SHOWING OF ACADEMY AWARD-NOMINATED* TRAINING DVD ON

MEDIATION AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!

starring

MEDIATOR : Steve Sovern, Mediator

DOMESTIC ABUSE SURVIVOR : Jan Rutledge, Managing Attorney, IC Regional Legal Aid Office

BATTERER : Frank Nidey, CR Family Law Attorney

Mediation and Domestic Violence Session 3:

Identifying and Responding to Patterns of Domestic Violence

Before and During Mediation

( Includes DVD of initial screening conversations and mediation)

December 7, 8:30 am - 5:00 pm

Grant Wood AEA, 1120 33 RD Ave. SW, Cedar Rapids, Room 214

7 hours CLE applied for

* Well, it certainly would be if the Academy had a category for training DVD’s.

Session 1

By exploring the basic dynamics of domestic abuse, the characteristics of perpetrators, and the impact on victims, Session 1 assists in the development of strategies for identifying whether mediation is appropriate in a given situation.

The focus is on maximizing the safety of all participants and supporting ethical mediation practice and referrals.

Participants will:

  • Enhance their knowledge and skills regarding assessing for domestic violence and its impact.
  • Recognize common mistakes and misperceptions regarding batterers and battered women.
  • Examine their own beliefs and attitudes regarding domestic abuse and how those may impact their decision-making process and practice.
  • Be able to screen effectively for power and control dynamics.
  • Be able to assess the parties’ capacity to mediate and the appropriateness of mediation.
  • Be able to adapt the mediation process or terminate it safely, as determined appropriate .

Session 1: Schedule

8:00 – 8:30 Registration

8:30 - Noon Domestic violence and implications for your practice. Includes common mistakes and misperceptions regarding batterers, victims and involved children. Includes 15-minute break.

Noon – 1:00 Lunch, on your own.

1:00 – 5:00 Screening parties and determining whether mediation is appropriate or not. Local resources and support . Includes 15-minute break.

Session 3

This session provides a forum for mediators, attorneys, therapists, victim advocates, and other professionals who work with individuals or couples to examine the issues involved in cases where one of the parties is a batterer.

In the afternoon we will focus on a DVD of a screening interview, mediation and termination. This is the first time this video has been shown. It features Steve Sovern as the mediator, Jan Rutledge as the survivor, and Frank Nidey as the batterer. There is also a DVD of a panel discussion of mediators, family law attorneys and victim advocates discussing the screenings and mediation.

Participants will:
  • Enhance their domestic abuse assessment and screening skills.
  • Examine their own mediation style and make conscious choices in their approach.
  • Recognize and monitor power and control tactics and victim impacts throughout the mediation process.
Session 3 Schedule
8:00 -- 8:30 Registration
8:30 – noon Increase ability to recognize red flags, enhance your screening skills, examine your own mediation style and learn to make conscious choices before and during mediation. Includes 15 minute break .
Noon – 1:00 Lunch (on your own)
1:00 – 5:00 Working with the parties: We will watch and discuss a DVD demonstrating the initial screening interview with both parties and a mediation. First showing of this DVD! Includes 15 minute break

These sessions are highly interactive. We know people learn better when they are interested and engaged. In spite of the seriousness of the topic, we guarantee you will enjoy the session.

These are the first and third sessions of a three-part curriculum on domestic violence and mediation designed for mediators, attorneys, and other professionals. All three sessions are required for family mediators on the Sixth Judicial District Family Mediation Program roster.

Presenters

Kirsten Faisal has been with the Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence, ICADV, since 1995, where she provides technical assistance to agencies that impact battered women and their children. She is co-author of the curriculum used by the Department of Corrections for women convicted of domestic abuse; serves on the Batterer Education Program Steering Committee; and has trained for the Department of Human Services and the Law Enforcement Academy. Ms. Faisal’s public policy work has influenced welfare reform, child protective services, and court systems in Iowa.

Prior to ICADV, she spent eleven years providing crisis intervention and graduated with honors from Iowa State University with a B.A. in anthropology.

Steve Sovern is an attorney and a full-time professional mediator in family law and other areas. He has mediated over 1000 cases since beginning practice in 1994. He was a member of the Iowa Supreme Court Mediation and Domestic Violence Work Group, a multi-disciplinary group that made recommendations to the Supreme Court on these issues.

Annie Tucker is the director of Mediation Services of Eastern Iowa, a non-profit organization that administers the 6th Judicial District Family Mediation Program. She is a mediator and has mediated over 800 family law and other cases since 1994. She was a member of the Iowa Supreme Court Mediation and Domestic Violence Work Group.

LOCATION AND DIRECTIONS:

Grant Wood AEA, Room 214

1120 33 rd Ave. SW, Cedar Rapids, IA

For more information day of course: 319 541-9434

From Downtown Cedar Rapids –

Take First Avenue (Highway 151) to I-380 South. Follow I-380 South to the 33rd Avenue

exit, exit 17. Turn right at 33rd Avenue SW. Go West through the intersection of

33rd Avenue SW and 6th Street SW. Continue west on 33rd Avenue for one half mile.

The 33rd Avenue Grant Wood AEA will be on the right side at 1120 33rd Avenue.

From Downtown Iowa City —

Take I-80 West to I-380 North. Take 33rd Avenue SW exit, exit 17, at the south edge

of Cedar Rapids. Turn left on 33rd Avenue SW. Go West through the intersection of

33rd Avenue SW and 6th Street SW. Continue west on 33rd Avenue for one half mile.

The 33rd Avenue Grant Wood AEA will be on the right side at 1120 33rd Avenue.

Via Highway 30 West or East— Turn off at 6th Street SW exit (Highway

965 North). Turn left on 6th Street SW. Go North to the 33rd Avenue

lights, turn left and go west on 33rd Avenue for one half mile. The 33rd

Avenue Grant Wood AEA will be on the right at 1120 33rd Avenue.

Questions?

Call Annie Tucker at MSEI at 319 248-1940 or admin@mediateiowa.org

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Mediation and Domestic Violence: Session 1

___ $95.00 Early Registration Fee

(if postmarked by November 21)

___ $105.00 Registration Fee

Mediation and Domestic Violence: Session 3

___ $95.00 Early Registration Fee

(if postmarked by November 21)

___ $105.00 Registration Fee

 

 

519 Kirkwood Ave. Iowa City, IA 52240
319-248-1940

 

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